At least where I'm from the average guy isn't an incel, just a low-tier normie. He'll get into a relationship eventually, just takes him much longer.

But that is besides the point. The higher the percentage of men who got something worthwile to invest their labour in, the better. Politicians should try to minimize inceldom, but us being the outgroup makes it bad for the politician, even if it would technically be the best for the civilization.