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[–]winkot 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

So platonic hugging doesn't make you fakecel... okay...

But there's no purely platonic hugging because there's literally no such social requirement in any country or society, even throughout history. So she embraced the entire body (as opposed to just lips or arm stroking) of an unattractive male... why?

Not even a 7/10 can imagine just being hugged by a girl who he didn't even flirt with, you can't underestimate the high standards they have or what a nightmare it is.

[–]AnimeRespecter 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

but what if its a far older women who is a family friend or you know them from church?? i only ever hugged 1girl my age. in middle school, and she mocked and made fun of me relentlessly. the idea that this invalidates my KHV incel status is incorrect

[–]winkot 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

but what if its a far older women who is a family friend or you know them from church??

Very interesting. I didn't notice it was this kind of a fantasy when first reading this comment.

I've talked about this when talking about quantum memories. You did in fact hug and kiss and even have sex with many girls, or didn't, depending on your state of mind. Surely many older women hugged you during gatherings right?

Being a KHV is a negative fact and therefore you'd need to know every fact in existence to confirm it. You can't know.

Let's take a look at reality: why would a woman from a church ever, ever, ever hug you? It sounds like common sense that it might happen... but it's false. Platonic hugging isn't a requirement for any social convention and overwhelmingly likely is just a quantum memory.

These quantum memories aren't required to cope, not really, and they reek of being a naive optimist like I was back when I was looking to cold approach in early 2023. So I just reject them.