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A sub for real incels, now that the mods of /s/incels have gone rogue.
I need to remind myself that I'm not normal
submitted 1 year ago by Mazurro from self.RealIncels
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[–]FrothySolutions 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (8 children)
That's a thing a lot of incels want. To not have to initiate. Because other people don't have to initiate. If I told you "Eventually you'll grow close enough to these people that you can ask to take your relationship to the next level" you might respond "That sounds pretty hard, social skills-wise. For someone who has never done this to have to do all the social heavy lifting? Frankly if they REALLY liked me they would approach ME. I don't care if maybe I can create friendships if I initiate. I want the life of someone who doesn't have to initiate. I don't wanna throw the party, I want them to invite me to the party."
I'm not sure how to become one of those people that doesn't have to initiate. But I definitely believe that, in time, your relationships will grow if you continue to foster bonds with these people. That is if you actually wanna be friends with those people. Maybe they don't do much outside of university and are as boring as we are.
[–]Mazurro[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (7 children)
I don't even understand what you just said. I initiated and did all the steps you mentioned before I even considered the "I don't want to iniciate, i want others to do it." I did all of that and I am certain, that it won't put me in any further step because of my subhumanity.
[–]FrothySolutions 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (6 children)
You said you wanted others to initiate the talks, instead of just you?
[–]Mazurro[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (5 children)
Of course I want that, but not INSTEAD.
[–]FrothySolutions 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (4 children)
Wait, what do you mean by "but not instead?"
[–]Mazurro[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (3 children)
I'm all aware I need to initiate contact in order to have it, however - when I am doing that and ONLY me, it means other aren't interested. So yes, at the end I also want others to do that.
[–]FrothySolutions 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (2 children)
Oh, I know that. But what I said still applies. I don't know how to get other people to initiate, but as long as you keep initiating I'm pretty sure you'll grow closer.
[–]Mazurro[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (1 child)
as long as i keep initiating still nothing happens. You don't get it.
[–]FrothySolutions 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
You're initiating, but no one's taking you up on your invitations?
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