when i went on dates with those fat chicks on tinder, I paid for everything. I didn't expect anything in return. But, at the same time, it was weird because when I paid $60 for dinner or lunch, girls would start asking me about the limits on my credit cards and etc. One of the FIRST THINGS women ask on Tinder is: where do you work and what do you drive. If you get defensive and go "I'll tell you once we get to know each other" they go "oh so you're a broke nigga, people that don't have money don't want to talk about their cars and jobs". But, if you tell people, you immediately SEE the interest wane off with their texts.

I'd tell a chick "I'm in college, I work part time, and I drive my Uncle's Chevy with 140k miles on it." Instant drop off. Either they ghost me immediately or they start sending one word replies. I say "let's talk a bit more before we delve into finances" and its "oh so you're a broke nigga. it's broke niggas that are scared to talk about money".

I do NOT believe you should EVER discuss finances with a woman. At least until you're living together. Don't tell them where you get your money, don't tell them how much you have, don't tell them your credit limits, don't EVEN MENTION IF YOU'RE STRUGGLING WITH FOOD OR GAS OR CAR MAINTENANCE. Women don't need to hear about ANY of this until you're boyfriend and girlfriend and live together in the same house.