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[–]Lifecantrulysuck 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Your hatred is what is making you insane. You're been hating for awhile now an it isn't helping so you think the answer is to hate even more , and when that doesn't help and actually makes it worse, you think the answer is to hate even more and so on. When really the way to settle your mind is to not hate.

[–]Mazurro[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Hate is working, but I am lately forced to witness more and more people around actually succeeding in terms of their relationships and I am coming to a point where there is no comeback. I just don't know how to address this issue, since I can't just close myself in my home.

[–]Lifecantrulysuck 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

You said hate is working, then proceed to tell me why it's not working. Yeah, you really can't close yourself in your home. You say you don't know how to address this issue, but I do, because I have. Hate doesn't work because there will always be the sight of couples around to trigger it, and trigger you.

[–]Mazurro[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

But accepting this state is outside of scope of possibilities. I will never accept that.

[–]Lifecantrulysuck 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

How come? If you can't change something, what does frustration and hate accomplish besides stressing you out?