The Irony of 'coping' insults

submitted by [deleted] from self.RealIncels

It's quite amusing when non-incel posters are dismissed as 'coping'.

As a group, incels unjustly suffer from living in a society with poor societal values and mating strategies, and quite understandably have formed an ideology and communities to 'cope' with this injustice.

But why accuse people who aren't emotionally invested in these issues of 'coping' when they aren't the ones having to 'cope' with these problems? The irony of this kind of projection doesn't really hit with much weight behind it

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[–]Mazurro 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Calling "coping" an accuse

You are seriously stupid. We are born ugly and that's the reason why we don't find anyone, coping refers to your belief, that we weren't dealt worse hand and we can change it easily. You believe that you reached your state by some hard work, when in reality you was born with such opportunity and we weren't. You can do as much mental gymnastics trying to prove to yourself that it's your awesome societal values or social skills or whatever - in reality you are lying to yourself.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

coping refers to your belief, that we weren't dealt worse hand and we can change it easily

When did I say that? (I didn't)...and it doesn't make sense, why would I need to cope with this, it doesn't impact me

You believe that you reached your state by some hard work

When have I ever mentioned anything about my own state or it being the result of hard work? You are just imagining these thoughts you are attributing to me

You can do as much mental gymnastics trying to prove to yourself that it's your awesome societal values or social skills or whatever

I didn't say a single thing about myself, I'm insulting the debate skills of two people in this sub who like to call people stupid names

Your sure do like to put a lot of words in my mouth though

[–]Mazurro 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Okay, you are seriously retarded then. Coping isn't an insult,if you treat it as such, then it's because of mentioned reasons.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I'm pretty sure it was intended as an insult because it is always accompanied by the word faggot

[–]greybeard 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

lurk more faggot (seriously please stop posting)

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

lurk more faggot (seriously please stop posting)

See this is exactly what I was talking about, you know your retarded outbursts only encourage me right?

[–]greybeard 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

kys

[–]FrothySolutions 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I would guess the thinking is "I know I'm coping, I'm just making sure the normies know that they're coping too. Life is misery and if I'm not pretending it isn't, they shouldn't either."

[–]hutavan 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

When it comes to incel circles, 99% of times "cope" really just means "lying to yourself to make yourself feel better". When non-incels are accused of coping it's usually when they display signs of buying into the "just world fallacy". They want to believe in a just world to some extent and it's whenever their "just world" beliefs clash with reality that they (usually) get accused of coping.

[–]grassfed 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

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