Deep Thoughts and Real Talk

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[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (10 children)

Blue Pilled Cope Faggot

These assholes tickle me to death; it’s so funny when I’m not the subject of their rage. They just run around banning people who disagree with them. The incels are just like ChipIt.

  1. I find the desirability of monogamy an interesting subject. To elaborate, I find male enforced monogamy, males on males, existing completely separate from women, an interesting subject. Many cultures that exhibit true monogamy, don’t leave the question up to women, they strongly enforce it on the men, regardless of what women want.

  2. I think there is a lot of potential for the incel community, if we or they can get past hating women.

  3. Little trans nazis is the best way to describe the community. Or better, to properly use the work, BIGOTS. We have lost the meaning or harshness of titles. Bigot used to mean something.

[–]IndianaJones 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (9 children)

I like you, FYM. I've always respected you and HKP's input. Whenever I listen to criticism, I try to not take it personally. I tell myself "Yes, these two hold bluepilled views. But all I ask is that you listen". There's nothing wrong with being bluepilled after all. It's just an opinion. When you told me you would hug ER, that was all I needed to hear to respect you. Haha.

But if these people are acting like little trans nazis as you say, why bother? If I thought someone was insufferable, I would walk away. I've noticed that you and HKP are in here a lot. Like... a lot. So why interact with a space that clearly unwelcomes you? To be honest I'm trying to have a similar mindset but with troons. Troons are clearly bad people, so why should I keep letting them live rent-free in my head? It's not my fight. I'll just let the politicians and Matt Walsh handle this.

It would be the same thing if I started commenting on FDS and got banned. FDS is a female only space, so why would I intentionally go to places that I'm not welcome in, you feel me? If I commented on FDS and got banned, I wouldn't be surprised in the slightest. That's like me going to a KKK meetup and complaining that they don't allow blacks to join. I think they should be able to burn crosses in peace.

I get that having a dialogue is important. Trust me, I'm the last guy who would want censorship. But perhaps instead of posting directly to s/RealIncels (Like a brown man barging into a KKK meetup unannounced) there could be a separate sub instead. Like s/AskAnIncel or something gay like that. That way, you can debate an incel all you want, while letting the other incels do whatever they want to in s/RealIncels.

I'll be honest though, a sub like s/AskAnIncel won't be very successful. I predict that it would just be empty, because most of us are just tired of hearing the same things over and over again. That's all. Clubs! Salsa class! Muh social hobbies! Haha! Aha!

My point is, if you clearly dislike the community, why bother? I do agree that if the mods are gonna ban normies, they should take this sub off s/all.

If I asked you for a hug, would you say yes?

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

But if these people are acting like little trans nazis as you say, why bother?

I read and respond to everything on s/all anything controversial that attracts discussion I am going to participate in.

so why would I intentionally go to places that I'm not welcome in, you feel me?

It is my understanding this sub is open to all, people have the option of participating in closed subs if they want to make people unwelcome, a sub on s/all is not the place for this

But perhaps instead of posting directly to s/RealIncels (Like a brown man barging into a KKK meetup unannounced)

Again, then wtf are you guys doing with a public sub if this isn't open for discussion and debate to all users of saidit? I don't go into CLownWorlds incel sub becaise it isnt public and I dont see the posts due to not subscribing. I don't go into other peoples private space, THIS one is public.

[–]IndianaJones 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

Yes, we don't disagree. I said that here.

I do agree that if the mods are gonna ban normies, they should take this sub off s/all.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

I also thought I was pretty clear that my comments about trans nazi's referred to two users in particular not the entire sub. If I really thought that everyone here was like that I would just troll all of you relentlessly like I do to those two rather than try to debate about it. I far prefer debate and discussion, but when people aren't capable of that, whatver

[–]IndianaJones 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Yeah that's fair. Don't worry you were pretty clear I'm just slow lol.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think this sub brings up interesting topics, and often makes good and fair points about issues like sexual selection that affect all of society.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Also didn't mean to lash out at you there man, I just got a bit upset because I really don't feel like I come here to start shit, I think these are good discussion worthy topics, and I just like to participate on saidit and like the way we discuss issues outside the mainstream that I wouldn't otherwise be exposed to in subs like this.

[–]IndianaJones 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

It's okay HKP :) you know just because we hold different views that doesn't mean we can't get along. Some people take it as a personal attack like they're out to get you or something. Haha. When s/RealIncels is right in front of you in s/all, it's hard not to comment on it, especially when most people use s/all as their default saidit browsing experience anyway.

/u/trident765 /u/AnimeRespecter you can solve this problem instantly. If you don't want normies and women in here, just take s/RealIncels off s/all. It should be a checkbox that you untick in the sub settings.

I get that growing a userbase could be an issue, but even a small but active userbase could be good. r/Realcels was easily the best incel subreddit ever made and that only had like 400 or so subscribers. Hell, it wasn't even public either. So you could make s/RealIncels invite only, similarly to r/Realcels. Indirectly, I've met two people irl because of r/Realcels (RIP Realcels 2018).

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'm pretty sure trident is the one who unbanned me actually, I get the idea that he is cool with discussions and debate

[–]IndianaJones 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh okay lol, nevermind then.