I am comparing the way both trans and certain members of incel community often tend to use ideology specific insults to attack people that attempt to debate with them, rather than addressing the arguments on their substance

When trans people go berserk calling people cisgender bigots when anyone disagreees with them, this is quite analogous to how members of this community dismiss arguments by calling them a bluepilled faggot cope, rather than actually refuting the arguments on their substance. This is right out of the transgender tactic book, which I would not seek to emulate