Who actually uses 80/20 to argue that 80% of women are married to 20% of men? What a retarded strawman. The whole point of bringing up 80/20 is mocking women for claiming they don't care about looks and showing that their ratings are completely out of whack, delusional and unrealistic.

"B-but women do message below average rated men, therefore looks don't matter to women"

Ok, imagine me rating an objective 10/10 genetically engineered perfection as below average, but since there's no better option I decide to go for her, so then I can claim that I go for below average and therefore looks don't matter to me. Like yeah, if women rate everyone as below average, then if they go for anyone at all, chances are they're gonna go for someone they rated as below average.

How are they so hopelessly stupid?