I don't mean to be disrespectful to your community, but I think if you asked 100 women to sleep with you, you wouldn't be celibate.

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[–]SMCAB 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I am currently dating. I have a collective of 123 messages sent, and 4 replies in 4 apps in a 2 weeks. I'm in shape, have never had a problem dating, I'm successful, and I act like an adult in a relationship. I'm the fucking catch here. And those are the hard numbers.

You're right, it's a numbers game, that's why I sent this. I will date them, I wil screw them, but it takes time and patience for a dude in this world. Every girl I talk to in public looks at me like I'm eating a cat. But I don't do bars either.

Advice! Surround yourself with a genuine partner, so you don't end up 44 with two kids in an environment where even being a top choice you get little to nothing.

I read the National average is 3 to 4 percent return on replies, no matter who you are.

Edit: You know, I feel bad, I didn't even realize where I was, I just replied. Ill leave it up becasue I don't delete anything, but sorry for my unawareness.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

See, here's the thing. Online dating is not your ticket out of inceldom. Go where the women are, work with them, socialise with them. Counting messages is a miserable existence and fuels resentment. Meeting women in real life is fun and exciting. Seriously, this idea that people should meet over messaging is depressing, it should be left for hookers and drug dealers.

[–]asterias 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Here is a critical question for you: What are you going to do when someone disrespects you in an offline situation?

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Walk away and get on with your life.