I don't mean to be disrespectful to your community, but I think if you asked 100 women to sleep with you, you wouldn't be celibate.

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[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I think it's mostly a self-esteem issue and fear of rejection that leads to the incel ideology and that makes things worse since it repels women. Self fulfilling prophecy of failure. Although sometimes their standards can be too high too.

[–]SMCAB 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That makes alot of sense. What I'm saying is, I think those girls get put through the ringer by alpha chads for 10 or 15 years, then they just say fuck it and go lower league(looks wise) so that dynamic disappears. They control it now, which is what they want, and that dude is home every night, doing what he's told. And if you're an incel, you're in on that deal.

[–]AnimeRespecter 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

yes and what causes us to have a elavated fear of rejection I wonder? I have shot my shot with women and been rejected countless times, so What could it be that makes us feel like we have no chance 🤔? Could it be that women have refused to treat us with the slightest semblance of dignity since we were prepubescent kids?