I don't mean to be disrespectful to your community, but I think if you asked 100 women to sleep with you, you wouldn't be celibate.

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[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

You know, I feel bad, I didn't even realize where I was, I just replied. Ill leave it up becasue I don't delete anything, but sorry for my unawareness.

I'm really glad you replied and left it up, I think it helps. I feel bad for the incels, I feel like they just need a bro to be their wingman and tell em the secret of women.

[–]SMCAB 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I don't understand this place? Do you know how many fairly attractive girls I see with with absolute chuds? I mean, enough to notice and say this, I see some that even make me comment in my head and get slightly mad! It happens almost daily.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I think it's mostly a self-esteem issue and fear of rejection that leads to the incel ideology and that makes things worse since it repels women. Self fulfilling prophecy of failure. Although sometimes their standards can be too high too.

[–]SMCAB 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That makes alot of sense. What I'm saying is, I think those girls get put through the ringer by alpha chads for 10 or 15 years, then they just say fuck it and go lower league(looks wise) so that dynamic disappears. They control it now, which is what they want, and that dude is home every night, doing what he's told. And if you're an incel, you're in on that deal.

[–]AnimeRespecter 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

yes and what causes us to have a elavated fear of rejection I wonder? I have shot my shot with women and been rejected countless times, so What could it be that makes us feel like we have no chance 🤔? Could it be that women have refused to treat us with the slightest semblance of dignity since we were prepubescent kids?

[–]Mazurro 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The secret of women - playing the flawed odds game of writing thousands of times as average guy (or subhuman in our case). Are we supposed to buy stuff for m'ladies in your take or what?

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think it's better when the m'ladies buy the guys things.