you are viewing a single comment's thread.

view the rest of the comments →

[–]greybeard 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

That your friends gives you advice also indicates that they don't think that it's totally over for you. Also this:

I refuse to try anything in terms of dating or even trying to befriend them for my sanity.

And even if they are just retarded, they are not trying to gaslight you but probably mean well.

[–]Mazurro[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

They knew it's over for me for a long time - especially when I had huge depression breakdown few years ago. The reason why they do this is because I am achieving stuff outside the scope of inceldom and dating, I got a nice job which I like, I finished my degree, I am more entertained with stuff I do, I am not stressing about life anymore, I got 2 surgeries etc.

They think that because of that it's possible, but I am still subhuman in looks plus inexperienced at 23yo plus I am not NT, autistic-like dude. I could try, it still fails.

[–]iamonlyoneman 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Find a charity to volunteer your time

[–]greybeard 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

why?

[–]iamonlyoneman 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Because you need to spend less time commiserating with yourself and more time helping other people. It's one of the few sure-fire ways to get to feeling better, when you help others.

[–]greybeard 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I haven't tried that yet, I'll keep my eyes open