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[–]raven9 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Men who actually like women already know a huge section of the female population are far more attracted to personality traits than physical ones but self obsessed narcissistic males who project their own obsession with looks onto women for the very reason they are narcissists don't understand the reason they are incels is because as narcissists they have no interest in learning how others think or feel and that is why women are not attracted to them.

I hope that makes sense.

[–]JosephDeMaistre 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

The only personality that studies have shown to be attractive to women (independent of the man's looks), is low-inhib, sensation-seeking (e.g. prone to substance abuse), narcissist, sociopathic, macchiavellian personality.

[–]alpha_wolf_69 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Not quite sure I agree with you there, JosephDeMaistre! Women are, like all human beings, seeking a partner who can protect and care for them. Men who are physically fit, take care of themselves (hygiene, skincare, clothes), and are reasonably successful in a career, business, or artistic pursuit should not be worried about finding a decent partner, or partners, in life. The hard part is focussing on yourself, sacrificing time for future success, and having some fun along the way.

Cheers, Wolf

[–]JosephDeMaistre 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Dude, what's your mental period in history? 1950s? You really think all these desperate celibate men who are willing to pay for OnlyFans whores loads of money just to have surrogate conversation with a woman (when free porn is readily available!) lack "basic hygiene, skincare and clothes"?! Or do you think all incels are NEETs and paupers? How do you explain this concern trolling article then: https://www.wired.com/story/ellen-pao-the-perverse-incentives-that-help-incels-thrive-in-tech/ I would have guessed high tech is a very good career lol.

Women's standards have skyrocketed, they don't need a betabuxx any more. There's a certain minimum of looks below which women won't date a guy, because they can always date up (hypergamy), even though they won't make a very desirable man commit.