You must be female. In college I was considered a jock because my friends were all jocks and I spent half my time working out or playing sports. And I had plenty of male friends. I spend the other half of my time in the library reading original papers in computer science and math. Nerds hated me because they viewed me as a freak. Of course I was incel. Later I became quite successful in business. But I was increasingly miserable as I watched the world go to hell.