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[–]jet199 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Truly smart people are happy because they are smart enough to get themselves into a good position in life.

Socially inept kids embrace academia and book learning to try to make themselves feel better about their ineptitude then become sad, lonely adults with lots of qualifications.

[–]fschmidt 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You must be female. In college I was considered a jock because my friends were all jocks and I spent half my time working out or playing sports. And I had plenty of male friends. I spend the other half of my time in the library reading original papers in computer science and math. Nerds hated me because they viewed me as a freak. Of course I was incel. Later I became quite successful in business. But I was increasingly miserable as I watched the world go to hell.

[–]SMCAB 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yeah Jet I'm not sure here. I'm only gonna say the following because it proves my point. I grew up in a shithole, I am not a product of my environment. I run a very successful company and I make more money than I ever thought possible. I am social, I have friends, I touch grass everyday. I am in what you would call this good position in life. I want for nothing. I would also say, with all that said, I am not particularly happy. I love myself, fairly self-aware, I raise my children well, but I'm not happy. And it's all a direct reflection of the state of the world. I only see that state of the world because, as the article points out, am "smart enough" to see it.

Also, if I didn't have kids, I'd be more content and care less about the state of the world. I'd just protect myself and die. I'd be happier if I didn't have kids. Not because I'd trade them for anything, or I don't love them and enjoy watching them grow into who they are, but because the world that is being left to them is a cesspool, and that's what I care about.

[–]jet199 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Having kids makes everyone unhappier.

Turning off the news makes everyone happier.