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[–]worried19 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I agree with a lot of what you say. I'm not the fucking bedroom police, but it's annoying how BDSM apologists come out of the woodwork any time a woman dares to criticize what they do, even on a radical feminist sub. Liberal feminists already won. They've already conquered the mainstream. They've already convinced the world that women are born submissive and that there's nothing even slightly problematic with men beating women in a sexual context as long as the so-called magical "consent" is involved. The fact that they keep digging the knife in over and over is just insult to injury.

Young girls are already doomed because they've been convinced by porn that this is their nature. That if a man wants to choke them or slap them around, there's nothing wrong with him, and that any woman who believes otherwise doesn't understand it's just "fun and games." I had people on Reddit tell me I was crazy, tell me that I was in the wrong because I said I would not tolerate domination or violence. I was called a prude, I was told I "have issues," I was made to feel that I was insane for saying I would file charges on a sex partner who strangled me or hit me without my consent. That's how normalized it is. That the proper response to a man hitting you or wrapping his hands around your throat is to meekly say "no" and accept what he did, rather than hold him accountable for what is a legally considered an assault.

[–][deleted] 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

We got to the point where loving, sensual and affectionate sex without any type of abuse is considered boring and 'vanilla" :)

[–]Portrynial 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. That's messed up that people said that stuff to you! Obviously you don't "have issues" just because you're against violence. I am sick of people. They can't just make it a rule that everything goes, and you're a prude if you're not ok with that. That is some creepy gaslighting. Anyone who assumes it's ok to assault a woman because it's supposed to be no big deal, it's just "bdsm." Without even asking her if she wants that "bdsm" play, that's committing literal violence.