Lipstickalley but some of the stuff they post might be offensive to non-blacks. Most of them are pretty radfem but black women don't call themselves radfem but womanists. So there is a Womanism subforum and some music and celebrity gossip forums, general subs, sports, religion, hair, science, news, etc. Just all kinds of subforums but it's mostly women. Unfortunately I can't think of any other websites because I ran into the same problem. I tried one website and you couldn't go into one sub without the title being sexual in nature. It could be a philosophy subforum and some dumb guy makes a thread, "To tie your partner or not to tie your partner. That is the question." They are never funny. Talking to men is your timewaster so you can look at it that way.