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[–]Buffalo_fart_XXVIII 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I had a former friend completely belittle his wife in front of me regarding pregnancy and the vaginal tear that most women get. He said he can no longer have sex with her in any meaningful way because he can't feel anything because her vagina is all weird. And she just didn't say a word and kept her head down defeated. And I thought about what he said and realized that he was a completely insensitive bastard. I never saw her again but if I did I don't know what I would say but I'd probably apologize for him and let her know that there's nothing wrong with her and he's an asshole.

[–]jet199 1 insightful - 5 fun1 insightful - 4 fun2 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

And you could offer to test it out so you could give her proper reassurance.

[–]Buffalo_fart_XXVIII 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Nah, it was just a situation that made me embarrassed. So I can only imagine how she felt. I'm not the the best human in the world but to belittle his wife in front of somebody just makes him a huge piece of shit.