My fiancé has a problem with alcohol to the point he has soiled himself more than once - people say I should postpone the wedding but I love him so much

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[–]Musky 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Shit happens. I mean, he's obviously a problem drinker. She isn't going to fix him. She's either okay with it or not, not sure why she's airing their dirty laundry. Pun intended.

[–]handbananasrevenge 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

That’s exactly right. Some people will put up with it and others won’t. Deep down she knows she should walk away from this guy, but I think she wants someone to tell her it’s ok to move forward with the wedding.

Probably because she wants to have a wedding.

[–]Alienhunter 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

From the guys point of view, this woman is obviously a keeper, I mean why would she ever want to stay with a problem drinker? But she does. Guy needs to just have some sense slapped into him and drink less.

[–]Vulptex 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

What if she were to lure him into the basement and tie him up till he's sober, would that work?

[–]jet199 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

What's your excuse for being an incel when women's standards are this low?

[–]ihaveyourdress 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Get used to being the breadwinner. I'd recommend reading A Tree Grows in Brooklyn for a realistic view of marriage to a drunk.

Spoiler: it's not fun