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[–]dicknipples 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

Nope - I still have the raging hormones. He's certainly not the guilty party. An adult teacher - female or male or shemale or wild animal - is supposed to help kids learn. As the sexual maturity of a kid develops, the rest of their lives are also impacted by that developmental stage of initial puberty. An adult can have a negative impact on the rest of that kid's life. I know, kids are sometimes - or often - VERY happy to shag teachers, if that's what the kids want. But this also betrays an adult/child trust between teacher/student. It sets a precedent of mistrust and/or exploitation. It's also a form a grooming by the adult, even if unwittingly. Anyhow - there's a lot we can say about the problems of adults bumping uglies with kiddos. Kiddos should enjoying being kids. It's a great time in their lives, potentially, without the sexual intervention of adults.

[–]Musky 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

I don't disagree with you, but shit happens. Yes, teachers banging kids should be frowned upon, but it's more a biological issue than a criminal one -- usually. There are certainly predators, but sometimes teachers and students just fall for each other. Doesn't mean people need to go jail, maybe just get them a new career.

[–]Ehhhhhh 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Shit happens? "Sorry I fucked a kid" doesn't really fall into that category.

[–]Musky 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

A 15yr student fucking a 22 year old teacher is pretty close to two kids fucking. I don't think anyone would blink if a 22 yr old had sex with a 29 year old even though it's the same 7 year age difference.

[–]Ehhhhhh 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

7 years isn't as big of a deal when both people are adults.

However this is not just 2 kids having sex. This is an adult teacher and a minor student. Pedo enabling and sexualization of minors is disgusting and wrong.

[–]Musky 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

22yr olds aren't that more mature than 15yr olds is the thing, there's no magical leap into adulthood between those two points in anything but an arbitrary legal way.

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You only think that from your vantage point as someone decades removed from those ages. A 22 year old and a teenager are both kids to you. For most 22 year olds, they feel the same way about kids in their early to mid teens. The ones who don't are considered creeps by their peers.

[–]Musky 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

You only think that from your vantage point as someone decades removed from those ages.

They call that wisdom.

You're a kid too. Everyone older than me is a decrepit old fart and everyone younger is a mere child. 🧐

[–]Ehhhhhh 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Seek counseling.