I Regret Being A Slut

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[–]TarBaby 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

I was first inspired to write this piece when a 19-year-old woman I used to wait tables with asked me: “Bridget, have you ever regretted having sex with a man?”

I laughed. “Yeah. All of them.”

That’s not entirely true. There was my first love in high school. And my first husband. But if I’m honest with myself, of the dozens of men I’ve been with (at least the ones I remember), I can only think of a handful I don’t regret. The rest I would put in the category of “casual,” which I would define as sex that is either meaningless or mediocre (or both). If I get really honest with myself, I’d say most of these usually drunken encounters left me feeling empty and demoralized. And worthless.

What she is looking for in a man, is a dick and a pulse.

[–]CreditKnifeMan 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

But if I’m honest with myself, of the dozens of men I’ve been with (at least the ones I remember), I can only think of a handful I don’t regret. The rest I would put in the category of “casual,” which I would define as sex that is either meaningless or mediocre (or both). If I get really honest with myself, I’d say most of these usually drunken encounters left me feeling empty and demoralized. And worthless.

It's interesting that guys can have similarly worthless encounters, and walk away feeling morale-y rejuvenated (a temporary increase in confidence, etc., But not an increase sense of moral ethics).

Both people with similar biological impetus, but the social expectations are inverted.

A case could be made for influence of a social construct in this regard. But it's also biological.

These inversed expectations exist almost uniformly, in virtually every culture.
I'm not aware of any cultural exceptions.

[–]jet199[S] 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

Girls can have similar experiences and seem fine too.

I think the issue is women who won't speak up and say what they enjoy and then have multiple bad sex experiences.

Also so many women have problems having an orgasm at all, which I think is a cultural problem not a biological one.

[–]CreditKnifeMan 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Also so many women have problems having an orgasm at all

Everyone lives in a bubble of their own experiences, and I remember thinking that this had to be exaggerated.

Do you think it's an issue where some women have difficulty with their comfort level (etc.), and that interferes with the process?

Is it an issue of men mishandling of hardware (operator error)?

Or an issue of the random combination of both conditions (or more)?

Master craftsmen simply don't understand what the hell is going on over there.

[–]jet199[S] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I remember a midwife telling me that women have easier births when their husband isn't in the room because they are so worried about pandering to his needs and worrying about how they look they don't look after themselves.

If women are doing that in during something as serious as giving birth they are 100% doing that during sex.

[–]SMCAB 4 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I totally regret you not wanting to be a slut anymore. You were probably a lot cooler when you were.

[–]IkeConn 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (39 children)

I was a male slut in college. I would do it again and I highly recommend it to young men. If you want to increase your cunt count all you need to do is hit the the gym and get some muscles. Even skinny small muscles will get you laid. 90 days in the gym and you WILL have some muscles. Gym sluts will come after you. I guarantee it. Just don't stick your dick in crazy.

[–]Anman 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (29 children)

Wow, it sure is bright in here. Something glowing hard. Or is it the smell of stolen land?

[–]IkeConn 5 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 4 fun -  (28 children)

Probably just your upper lip.

[–]Anman 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (27 children)

Sorry, I dont speak degenerate.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (26 children)

Yes... you do. Like most human beings actually.

Gotta develop from somewhere or do you disagree?

From where doesn't matter actually, as long as there is development.

[–]Anman 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (25 children)

Sorry, I don't speak retard.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (24 children)

Yes you also do. You're just weak. That is why you hide behind these phrases.

[–]Anman 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (23 children)

Sorry, I don't speak weak limp wristed beta male slug.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (22 children)

So you're starting to strip again... Nice !

Show us your tanga. Are you wearing the pink one again ?

[–]Anman 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (21 children)

What? You don't like salt? Good, I don't have kosher salt.

[–]serial 2 insightful - 4 fun2 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 4 fun -  (3 children)

Just don't stick your dick in crazy.

i am not sure that i like your tone.

[–]IkeConn 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

It's not a tone, it's not aimed at you, and I did not mean it in a "mean" way. It's more of a warning to young men to watch out for the odd crazy girl.

[–]jet199[S] 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

It's more of a warning to young men to watch out for the odd crazy girl.

10% of zoomers have narcissistic personality disorder

[–]serial 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

MY HUMOR IS TOO DRY. I GOT IT.

RIGHT NOW I AM LEARNING TO MIX BRAKE FLUID AND POOL CHLORINE.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SSNPtuAcTm0

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

I actually only "like" crazy. But that's another story.

Because there are so many really, really lovely "kinds" of crazy you can start falling in love with.

(Please: Don't get me started on combinations of these "illnesses".)

Risk-minimizing tactics are a requirement to minimize the fallout though. But going nuclear, pushing some red buttons and letting yours be pushed you should be "knowing" what you're doing, anyways.

It is not your standardized (legally approved) rollercoaster ride. It "can" be a lot more for a fact, but hasn't to. Like dancing over the razor-thin edge of a volcano while juggling five or more balls and "adjusting" to continuously changing weather conditions between tsunami and hurricane. -Alike.

So stay careful when following the following !:

E.g. i "did" a lot of B(ored)P(ussy)D(isease). Never a boring minute with these drama queens. Sadly mostly somewhat shallow and dense after a while, seemingly.

"Autist" gals also can be fine, for most parts. As long as there are at least some shared interests.

But "Schizo" gals seemingly just are a world, i "like" to live in, so to say. Most of them hide their beauty and wisdom really well, sadly. Almost everytime i underestimated most of them.

If they can "trust" you "enough" to share their world with you (and there actually is a world inside them to live in though). The only gals i can "put" on a pseudo-pedestal for longer, if they start sharing all the harmonies they seemingly almost always thought about or "created". Basically they "are", like i am for most parts, quite often.

So many nostalgic memories coming up right now...

As "what" i regard most of "the rest" of the "female world", i'll never state anywhere anyways.

[–]IkeConn 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

So do you get laid well and often or not?

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

I don't decide on this alone, obviously.

And there are thing's that fuel my demons when people try to gaslight me into their personal simulation of these things.

Privacy is such a thing. Because intimacy usually is hidden in it.

Even when most US sheeple forgot things that simple.

Which you should accept.

But since you're so invasive:

Why don't you tell us the stuff you simulate about your sex-life?

Or posted your most favourite pornhub links in the first place?

[–]IkeConn 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

OK Wordy McWordface.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You're just jealous on the spells i write down for y'all. Because they're obviously magic and working.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Emotion-laden wenches were much better off when society viewed the inefficient irrational dames as property of males.

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    [–]jet199[S] 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

    Oh yes.

    But with choice comes responsibility.

    [–]johndoyle 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

    White women amirite?

    [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    Oh bby