I always thought of being gay as something similar to being left handed. Most people are right-handed, but some people are left-handed. And some are ambidextrous, like how some people are bisexual. Some people say that having older brothers increases the likelihood that you’d be gay, probably because your parents would have enough sons to give them enough grandchildren or so that you won’t have children and thus enough resources to take of your parents. I only have one older brother, but my mother was the youngest of a large family and I have a lot of maternal cousins who are older than me. Maybe that is why I’m a homosexual.

Look, I don’t know where homosexuality comes from. All I know is that I am a homosexual, and my childhood was similar to that as most people. You could argue this was influenced by the large number of older cousins I have, but that’s all I know.