Rise in popularity for anal sex leads to health problems for women

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[–]StillLessons 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Modern western culture worships recreational sex. The idea that sex should be bound by the limits of traditional stable relationships (marriage, family systems, etc) is now considered "[X]-phobic". Instead of working to bring homosexual activity under the same constraints as heterosexual activity, the opposite is being promoted. Heterosexuals are being encouraged to be as deviant as homosexuals. All the problems, none of the benefits. What a perfect system...

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Whats the problem with dipping one's stick into somebody else dressing ?

If it is offering itself to be dipped?

That's just human nature. Constraints of instincts like this are unnatural. Typical Christian propaganda bullshit, so to say.

We got condoms nowadays, fyi.

[–]RedEyedWarrior 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It’s good and healthy to take control of your own sexuality. And I that, I mean only having sex within established relationships, or at least being careful who you stick your dick in or who you fill your arse with. Yes, we have condoms. But condoms only mitigate the health risks. And aside from health risks, there’s also the emotional and disciplinary components too. If you shag the first person who wants to shag you, and you have multiple sex partners in a week, it’s going to be harder to establish a long term committed relationship. If you don’t want a long term relationship that’s fine, but you need one if you want to have a family. And if you cannot resist the urge to have lots of sex, then you’re not free. You are easily controlled by your urges and by other people.

Like beer and chocolate, sex a vice. It’s okay to have a vice in moderation. So it’s okay to have sex with a partner or a spouse. And you don’t need to be a Christian or a Muslim to understand this.

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I always ask "permission" first. It's part of our game.

But since we're both "diagnosed" with some mental gifts (that fit into each other like lock and key somehow magically), its ok.

We're both hypersensitive. That is why there is just doesn't exist any need for lies of whichever color.

And our neighbours know us. Mostly i'm into some female students and she is into her flower-vendor in our home depot, recently.

That's ok. There just ain't no need for classical rules.

Because we both would break them anyways the moment they'd be "enforced", so to say.

The secret ingredient to our relationship is the one day every week, we exclusively invest into our relationsship. Sometimes with some weed or mushrooms. Everything else is put on freeze for these magical hours.

And having kids is out of scope for us at this vicinity in time.

She already has one and i'm not quite sure if i want ("another") one. Only time will show the way to go in this aspect, i believe.