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[–]jet199 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

If your fantasy relationship is one where you are constantly arguing, backbiting and in drama mode all the time then that's a thought pattern you can change right now to improve yourself and your life.

Most likely your parents had a similar relationship, break the cycle.

Imagine a relationship where you actually get on with your partner, are happier when you are together and are supportive of each other instead.

[–]AXXA[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They say that you can't love others until you love yourself. But the opposite is true as well. You can't love yourself until you love others.