Apparently this was all orchestrated by one woman who got mad because he didn't want to have an international long-distance relationship with her after chatting for under a month, with her current husband helping her destroy him. Probably spun some tale about how awful this one guy treated her in the past and Nice Guy husband was happy to white knight and help her out. P0x0rz was the mod involved, though I'm not sure if he's the husband.

Of course the way the /r/Fantasy mods handled it was atrocious with the most disingenuous apologies ever.