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[–]Davethe_blank_ 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

thank you for saying something to these young men. I have recently come to realize how much it is not their fault. It is our fault as parents of these young men that call themselves incels. But the task was herculean to keep them away from the narrative and agenda to make them weak by design.

But it is not too late. stop reaching for porn stars. Stop watching so much porn. I mean you gotta cum, but not 4 times a day to hentai. Then realize that no one gives a fuck about you. That means don't sell yourself short of having a wonderful person in your life just because of what others might think. And get some real talents. Translatable into the real world. Fix cars. Woodwork. Something. Then just be you. And find the girl that clicks with you. The term incel is an insult to friendly human existence, and to call themselves one will certainly exclude them from it.

[–]Mazurro[S] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

You don't get the idea how it works, you missed effect with a causation lots of times there.

Then realize that no one gives a fuck about you. That means don't sell yourself short of having a wonderful person in your life just because of what others might think

Those are contradictions, unless you meant something different. If noone cares, why am I shamed and excluded for how I look? (which is always directly said).

And get some real talents. Translatable into the real world. Fix cars. Woodwork. Something.

I can code, I have a good job in this field, I know lots of stuff which is translatable to better up my living. It doesn't translate ATTRACTION because those aren't attraction features.

Then just be you.

Depressed ugly subhuman misanthrope? Definitely I should be myself. If anything, the fact that I DON'T show myself outside is doing better.

And find the girl that clicks with you.

It's the opposite, because I would be fine with most of people truly. However, not even one girl ever would choose to 'click' with an ugly guy.

The term incel is an insult to friendly human existence, and to call themselves one will certainly exclude them from it.

With this I somehow agree, calling yourself an incel is part of desensitization in order to feel a bit better, or rather less bad.

[–]Alienhunter 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Look man going to be brutally honest here. Some men certainly have it easier than others in the looks department, but if you ever look in the mirror and think "I'd tap that" you're probably gay. Most straight men are going to be repulsed by their gross male physique and it's perfectly normal to be repulsed by yourself. I think most of the men in my friend group are ugly motherfuckers but some of them are constantly hooking up so go figure. I won't ever understand women's preferences so it's a waste of time to try.

So what you've gotta do is lie to yourself. And don't be yourself if yourself is someone that you don't like. You've got to change yourself into someone you do like. Apart from appearance. That's irrelevant largely.

Get your shit together, get social hobbies, get good hygiene, dress nice. Some girl will be attracted to you. Girls like weird ugly shit. Why do you think pugs exist as pets? I dated a girl that had a bunch of pet bugs she thought were cute. I'm like, hmm, but then again girls like dick and if that's not gay as fuck go figure ewww. I'll only ever be on the same page with lesbians on who is attractive or not. If it's alive and breathes there's a girl out there that will be infatuated with it. Just gotta be out and available and play the stupid social mating dance romance shit. Even the ugliest guy on earth will be casanova if he's got suave and that's a learned skill you can emulate.

Think why do chicks go for stuff like Phantom of the Opera, or Twilight, or that weird monster movie where she falls in love with the fish man. Chicks dig ugly dudes. Don't ask me why. They simply do. Most girls also think they are ugly. Most are right. But you don't have to tell them that.

[–]Mazurro[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Get your shit together, get social hobbies, get good hygiene, dress nice.

I already did that and I am relatively fine with my life as it is.

Some girl will be attracted to you.

She won't, because none of the things you mention is the actual attraction factor.