Imagine this: You put different human beings in different drawers in different rows and columns of a closet. Just to save space in your memory and time in your brain-processing power. Because the process gets more efficient for the brain, so to say.

Everyone of those drawers has labels on it like: Gay, black, white, TERF, nerd, geek, woman, lesbian, teacher, boss, possibly fuckable female friends, asshole male friends, non-asshole male friends, racist, liberal, democrat and so on.

The bullshit you also put this drawers with these labels are your own prejudices you assume about these people that you put into this specific drawers. Some of these prejudices aren't even actually your own, because the were "printed" into by your upbringing or your social context. You just copied them from somewhere or someone, without sometimes even being able to question them. Maybe you were to young to even try to do this, when they were imprinted in your "core" so to say.

Assumptions like : All black people are primates. All lesbians offend me, e.g. . But you can't really know, if those prejudices actually true because you don't actually know all these people that you put in their corresponding drawer. That is why these are prejudices.

You judge something, before you actually took the time to actually get to know it.

Your memory also somewhere has hidden sort of an asshole-drawer, where most of the humans people put all other humans beings into that don't seem to fit in any other or any combination of other drawers. So you judge them, just because they don't fit into your drawer system in your memory.

The perverse thing about this, you tend start to believe your own system more and more the more the more you use it, rather than changing it, because it works "finely" enough, so to say and so you tend get lazy in this aspect of actually working on your own self.

That is the problem with building new drawers, i meant. So you start to make wrong assumptions about the people because of the drawer you put them into.

Does this makes at least some sense for you ?