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[–][deleted] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

That message wasn't even transphobic at all, she acknowledged the masseuse's 'gender' but said she is uncomfortable with someone of the male 'sex'.

[–]jet199[S] 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

This is why you can't ever apologise or try to be kind.

They see it as a weakness like sharks smell blood in the water.

If this woman had been firm with her boundaries without excuses they'd have to have more respect for her.

In fact they'd probably be terrified.

This person has likely never been told "no".

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

This is why you can't ever apologise

Are you the British version of my wife? You'd think it'd fucking kill her to apologize ever.

[–]iamonlyoneman 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The ninny in question doesn't understand his sex, or won't on purpose, and will be offended by everything except a woman letting him massage her naked body. No need to over-think it.

[–]Canbot 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Mental illness does not follow logic or care about facts.