Intelligent software engineer figures out that his girlfriend is only with him for his money. Then: "I was a wild party girl" and rode the cock carousel. Now: "My tastes have changed" and "I never have sex with him." This king dodged a bullet.

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[–]jet199 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Seems fake. Why would he specifically moan about all her exes being white? Sounds like woke reddit speak.

However I do feel like this would be a good post for my new sub s/manosphereinaction.

Frankly if he's such an insecure little whiney bitch then it's her who's dodged the bullet.

[–]Chipit[S] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Seems fake. Why would he specifically moan about all her exes being white?

Read it again, but imagine that both of them are Asian.

Makes a lot more sense now, doesn't it?

[–]Tom_Bombadil 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Read it again, but imagine that both of them are Asian.

Snow projection.

[–]jet199 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

But then if you imagine they are both Asian her wanting to have kids with an Asian guy is completely understandable.

[–]Dashing-Dove 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (8 children)

With that level of insecurity, no marriage of his will last. Who dodged the bullet again?

[–]Zapped 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

I agree, although when someone posts something so personal and emotional like this on a huge social media site looking for attention or affirmation, they are probably still too immature for an adult relationship.

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    [–]Chipit[S] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    The point isn't to get advice, it's to get attention and sympathy. She wants people to tell her she's right and he's wrong.

    [–]jet199 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    Because people don't have real friends any more.

    They spend all day scrolling through reddit chatting bs then when something big happens to them that's the first place they turn without thinking.

    And another aspect is a lot of people read these relationship subs with real jealousy. They are bored and wish they had something as interesting going in in their lives. Then when something bad does happen they are straight online to post it to show they are interesting too, please look at me.

    [–]Tom_Bombadil 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    Not to mention their lack of any real life experience. They're kids.

    And bots.

    [–]Dashing-Dove 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

    Maybe. Taking advice from internet strangers is a gamble, as they aren't aware of the situation's finer details, and the only means to judge wisdom and character is by their posting style. Yet she's probably looking to vent too, and airing such private details about a fiancé to mutual friends would be a graver mistake. So at least it was anonymously posted and not some Facebook freak out. If it were me, I would have confided in my friends only, the few I trust with secrets.

    [–]Zapped 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Good points.

    [–]asterias 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    insecurity

    She withheld sex from him and he discovered she had plenty of sex with others. He realized he was going to end up with a dried up cow and decided to be rational and get rid of her. That doesn't sound insecure at all.

    [–]Gaslov 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I'd bet this is a creative writing assignment. There are only a handful of software engineers making 600k and it's not because they're programming.

    [–]asterias 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

    "My tastes have changed because I want to start a family"

    Way to shoot herself on the foot. But otherwise we wouldn't have had this funny text to read.

    [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    I don't see why that's a problem, she's 33. That's late in the game, she only has a couple years of prime baby making left. And wanting a good provider makes sense. The sex is the real problem, if they're already not fucking before marriage that's never going to last

    [–]asterias 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    A good provider sounds like a bad deal (for the guy).

    [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Promiscuity matters to men. The fact that she was a dumb whore, and that she wouldn’t date him 15 years ago DOES matter. Men have morals.

    He should look for a sweet 18-23 year old. That isn’t out riding cocks all night.

    [–]yabbit 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    alpha fucks beta bucks