Trouble on the Homefront
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[–]JasonCarswell 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun - 2 years ago* (2 children)
The Ethical Slut book helps explain MANY of the problems and how to solve them. For example, jealousy may be solved with inclusion, communication, etc. Most people are not open enough, communicative enough, or rational enough to be able to handle polyamory - if that's even what they really want. Some people just want to get laid more, but that's as unrealistic as wanting to be rich. Whether it's in Burning Man communities or hippie communes or cults or "non-weird" scenarios, ultimately the alpha stud muffins get the attention of the women and the other dudes may get some scraps once in a while. Polyamory is way beyond tricky, and I've seen it done good, bad, and ugly, yet I understand it's a legit lifestyle and can respect much of it, while also cautioning against it and won't recommend it to anyone.
It's not about fucking a bunch of people. It's about loving more than one person...
Yes, done right by mature adults. I've seen it and it's much more about sharing feels and stuff than the sex. This HUGE amount of communication takes MUCH time - a huge commitment most folks can't make.
I'm guessing there might be some well-produced neutral informative and not hyper-sexualized media about these topics (poly, bi, gay, etc), but I'm unaware of any, and if they exist they're lost in the oceans of media and I'm no longer as curious about this stuff as I used to be.
[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun - 2 years ago (1 child)
Well said.
ultimately the alpha stud muffins get the attention of the women
Don't hate me cause I'm beautiful.
[–]JasonCarswell 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun - 2 years ago (0 children)
I was once beautiful too.
Now my insides are beautiful. You should see my technicolour colon.
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