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[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Nope. Anyone woman that you would end up with will be punished because you see them the way that you do, and having to put up with that combined with your emotional outbursts is not going to work out well for anyone that wants children. Women generally don't want a partner that is effectively a child. Get on disability, do things involving your interests, do whatever you want. Please don't seek out someone to have children with. No one wants to be stuck with another person that just sees them as an inconvenience and obligation. That's bullshit.

[–]Vulptex 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

That's not even what I said

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Ok. An obligation is something that you feel compelled to do for the sake of 'x' reasoning. You feel obligated towards working a job that you do not want to perform for the sake of societal expectations within a particular sect of society. You show vitriol towards women in many instances, but I'll quote you here:

Society will always hold very high expectations from me and want me to give the fruits of my labor to them and to women. If you don't believe me, why are men almost always breadwinners and women, if they work, usually get a part time hobby job that's not serious about making income? Why are women always saved first from disasters? Why do women get handed everything in a divorce? Why do women only get 1/6th the prison time as men for the exact same crime? Why are men homeless but women cared for by society? Why are men considered creeps for the same things women are applauded for? Why does the man have to pay on the date? Why are men scolded for having personal issues but women are given support? Why are men always portrayed as workaholics but women as hobbyists and the ones making purchases (with mens' money usually)?

[–]Vulptex 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's not just a social expectation. If I don't fulfill it society will actively punish me. If all they could do was mock me for not being enough of a man I wouldn't care.