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[–]Vulptex 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

If some man gets dealt a seriously bad hand and can turn it around and thrive and be a happy person then anyone can.

No, because he was still lucky enough to have the opportunity to turn it around. 90% of the world is doomed to a life of nothing absolute misery with absolutely no hope whatsoever.

[–]Neroke-05[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

That’s only true if you believe it! There are cases of guys that lived in their cars for years because of their exes, not seeing their kids. Addicts that have come from the absolute worst conditions that have turned it around. I’ve actually met people like this too.

You wanna stay in the self pitying Black Pill victim mentality then have it at!

Feel free to let me know when you decide to stop being a victim and decide you want to be a Victor

Until then DON’T waste my time!

[–]Vulptex 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Some people can turn it around, others cannot. I certainly can't fix most of my problems, and they're not even half as bad as 95% of the world and it's still hell.

[–]Neroke-05[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

It’s not about fixing your problems. I have issues too. It’s about having the life you envision for yourself in spite of them

[–]Vulptex 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

That's not always possible

[–]Neroke-05[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

What ever you say! Have you even TRIED to look at options. In my experience there’s always a way out or solution. Sometimes it’s a grind or major sacrifice but it’s never impossible

And yes I’ve seen it done.

[–]Vulptex 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I have, and there are none that work for me.

How do you think someone in a North Korean concentration camp would feel if you said that to them? Do you think they can just get up and leave? Anything is better than being in a labor camp where drunk doctors tie you down to a table and mutilate you for experimentation, and where guards beat you severely for fun, and where you have to pick pieces of corn out of poop for food because they starve you. Do you think it's possible for them? Rarely it is, but 99% of the time it is not.

If you think it's always possible you are ignorant of the reality most people face in life. You are very lucky if you can do something about every significant problem in your life. Not everyone is.

[–]Neroke-05[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

We’re NOT in North Korea False Equivalency

You know what? Don’t know your situation but I’m sick to fucking death of your excuses

You wanna stay where you are THEN STAY THERE! Through listening to your excuses Get Lost

God damn it must literally Hurt to WANT to be a perpetual victim! Go be one somewhere else

Wait why yes that’s harsh, kinda tends to happen when people keep trying to justify themselves with BULLSHIT EXCUSES

[–]Neroke-05[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What ever you say! Have you even TRIED to look at options. In my experience there’s always a way out or solution. Sometimes it’s a grind or major sacrifice but it’s never impossible

And yes I’ve seen it done.