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[–]redgreenblue[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Do you think that some of the bisexuals you meet are just closet lesbians?

[–]bucetao6969 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

uhhh... even a 1% heterosexual + 99% lesbian female is still a bisexual 🤔 so I don't really buy this "closeted lesbian". If you're a lesbian you're basically "no males" and it is extreme no matter how you think about it. Maybe some girls only like finger action but that still allows males into the play.

also let me ask why you all have a thing against bisexual women? is it STD's?

[–]redgreenblue[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Since you're not a homosexual, you have no clue what it's like to be closeted. I suppose you also consider exclusive heterosexuality extreme? Of course you're logically consistent in your beliefs, right?

Don't play the victim with me on a lesbian sub, pretending I secretly hate all bis just because I'd like to have a friend who's of the same kind as me.

[–]bucetao6969 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Since you're not a homosexual

Big assumption just from a saidit comment

you have no clue what it's like to be closeted

I saw asexual memes and thought they where pretty funny until I realized "wait, I'm on the ace spectrum" so yeah I do know too

I suppose you also consider exclusive heterosexuality extreme

No, I know guys who like rimjobs and like to be pegged by their wives even if they don't like guys or real dick. Also Brazil which has a culture of "I don't care about gays or trans as long as they're not one of my sons" also had crossdressing festivals which heterosexual men loved doing for the hell of it even before the whole LGBT+ virus (not sure they do it anymore because of that). Because of heteronormative it's hard to call heterosexuality "extreme". Also they're the ones making babies.

Don't play the victim with me on a lesbian sub, pretending I secretly hate all bis just because I'd like to have a friend who's of the same kind as me.

I'm not picking at you I'm genuinely curious what's the thing of this sub with bi women. I want to know! IS IT THE STD'S??!!

Also fair enough that you want to have someone of "your race" as a friend. I too want someone of the ace spectrum as a friend (who's not a demi because 90% of them I feel like are white girls in a modern emo phase). But that would be just for sharing memes (I don't think they'd exactly want to have sex). I just don't understand why it would be weird to go out of your way to focus on sex with a full lesbian than a bi-woman (fair enough as a preference since you're a lesbian, but making it a goal is weird). Fair enough if it's the STD's. Is the experience more novel or something?

Why is this a problem for me? Because there's no "bisexual women" sub. I wish this was a good place of discussion for them as well.

[–]redgreenblue[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Big assumption just from a saidit comment

Your post history says you're asexual. I checked because of how incredibly ignorant of lesbian and gay issues you seem. It's rare that one of our own comes across so ignorant.

I saw asexual memes and thought they where pretty funny until I realized "wait, I'm on the ace spectrum" so yeah I do know too

Being a "closeted asexual" is like being a "closeted" anime fan. Some people think it's kinda weird but no one really cares that much. What rights have asexuals ever not had?

No, I know guys who like rimjobs and like to be pegged by their wives even if they don't like guys or real dick.

Lmao, there you go calling a sex act between a man and a woman gay 🤡

Also fair enough that you want to have someone of "your race" as a friend.

What are you even on about in this entire paragraph? Lesbians aren't a race lmao. And there is no psychological difference between asexuals who are not closeted gays/lesbians and heterosexuals, so you're essentially looking for someone to meme with which is cool, but not at all the same thing.

I just don't understand why it would be weird to go out of your way to focus on sex with a full lesbian than a bi-woman (fair enough as a preference since you're a lesbian, but making it a goal is weird).

Quote where I said that because I never did. It's funny how you accuse me of making wild assumptions when I made one "assumption" (I just looked at your post history) that was correct, and you're throwing out narcissistically injured projections about "OMG YOU WOULDN'T EVEN WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH A BI WOMAN???" Sex was never mentioned, but it sounds like you're personally hurt from imagining some stranger on the internet not wanting to have sex with some "hypothetical bi woman"... hmm. "Ace spectrum" huh?

I don't know why the fuck you're here. Straight or 1% bi people coming in here with no fucking clue what they're talking about. Go to s/bisexuals. It's even worse because you're half playing-dumb half actually retarded. As if you have a clue about what goes on in lesbian minds, gay minds, or the minds of heterosexual males who crossdress. The straights didn't accept you so now you're gonna try and join the "abnormal extremist" crowd? You're not welcome here. Go get your back broken by some pathetic straight male.

[–]bucetao6969 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Lmao, there you go calling a sex act between a man and a woman gay 🤡

I didn't say that you didn't even realize why I mentioned that

Your post history says you're asexual. I checked because of how incredibly ignorant of lesbian and gay issues you seem. It's rare that one of our own comes across so ignorant.

Ignorant? Let me reiterate again I'm just making questions regarding no preference for bi women

have sex with some "hypothetical bi woman"... hmm. "Ace spectrum" huh?

Oh shut up. Also where tf you even got I'm asexual. I said I'm on the ace spectrum. You think I'm hitting on you? This sub is probably full of bots too who wants my pics for my IP adress.

"OMG YOU WOULDN'T EVEN WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH A BI WOMAN???"

And YOU call me a narcissist because I ask WHY you wouldn't have sex with a bi woman, you're blowing way out of proportion a genuine question

As if you have a clue about what goes on in lesbian minds, gay minds ...

Yes this is why I asked the thing about bi's. I'm on the ace spectrum and I guess it's too much to want to understand something

The straights didn't accept you so now you're gonna try and join the "abnormal extremist" crowd?

I can see why your gf dumped you now lmao and YOU dare call me a narcissist

[–]redgreenblue[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I didn't say that you didn't even realize why I mentioned that

Feel free to clue me into your twisted logic.

Ignorant? Let me reiterate again I'm just making questions regarding no preference for bi women

I called you ignorant because of several statements and implicit assumptions you've made. Not because you're "just asking a question omgg!!"

And again, never once did I even mention sex or dating, much less any "preference against bi women" that you imagined that I had lol.

You think I'm hitting on you? This sub is probably full of bots too who wants my pics for my IP adress.

I wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole. Nobody wants you sweetie. Funny how you instantly jump to a homophobic "all the lesbians want me!!" I guess that delusion helps you cope with your life in some way.

Yes this is why I asked the thing about bi's. I'm on the ace spectrum and I guess it's too much to want to understand something

I know you don't actually think I'm objecting to you "asking a question." I'm telling you your implicit assumptions are wrong.

I can see why your gf dumped you now lmao and YOU dare call me a narcissist

Yeah I dared. Sowwy pwincess. Yeah no I'm not going to tolerate your complex. And more homophobic comments, cool. You're really revealing yourself here.