Hurt deeply by "bisexual" friend

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    [–]MyLongestJourney 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (10 children)

    Don't bet too much money

    [–][deleted] 0 insightful - 1 fun0 insightful - 0 fun1 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

    I already won based on your answers! Are you one of those radfems? Since you think It's a choice to be gay

    [–]MyLongestJourney 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

    I am a Greek Biologist who happens to be both a woman and homosexual. And I am fed up with the idiocy of the Anglosphere.

    Edit. I do not believe that being gay is a choice you sycophant.

    [–][deleted] 0 insightful - 1 fun0 insightful - 0 fun1 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

    And I'm a professor at Harvard University, sure. I want proof of that! And why call me a sycophant?

    [–]MyLongestJourney 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

    I was one of the 100 original members of r/truelesbians and a mod there for several months (until the founder EnglishRose decided to allow male Ts to post there,to save the sub from getting banned and brought a very T friendly head mod to enforce the new policy) "professor".

    Edit. The sycophant was a mother tongue (Greek) error. You see in modern Greek a sycophant (συκοφάντης) is someone who defames someone.I looked it up and in English it means something different.Meh.

    [–][deleted] 0 insightful - 1 fun0 insightful - 0 fun1 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

    Got it, i'm so sorry. I'm a bit impulsive at times and I let my emotions get the best of me...

    [–]MyLongestJourney 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    No worries.

    [–]UWUness 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

    Hey there.

    To answer your questions: https://imgur.com/jimWLJv

    Lesbians exist. I am one and I've never been close to a penis.

    The interactions I have with men are out of "necessity", such as interacting with male professors, taxi drivers, cashiers a the supermarket, and family members, all of which take place at a distance.

    Anything more than "friendship" with males arouses revulsion and extreme discomfort.

    I would never wish I were "into men". Gross.

    Whatever you call a woman who has never been with a man, that's me. I'd consider myself pure.

    [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

    Thank you so much for taking time out of your day to answer me...I really appreciate it. Let's just say that i'm an obsessive person and on certain topics I lose my mind such as this one...To me It's such a delicate thing to talk about. By the way i thought i was the only one feeling this way, really, but I'm very happy to see that I was indeed wrong! Women like you give me hope and let me know that i'm not alone in this. I swear that I have no problem in being a lesbian myself, i'm quite at peace with that. It's just that some other women make me feel insecure because of the way they talk about their supposed attraction. It's so weird, like how many girls in the community say to prefer sex toys to...you know...actual female genitals haha...But I never hear the same with straight people and it truly makes me feel weird, it makes me doubt the sincerity of their words. Or when they say that lesbians don't have sex this or that way, they are twisting my mind! I don't know who to trust anymore...I know that people lie most of the time but I wish they didn't when it comes to their sexualities. We already live in an extremely hostile world and they certainly don't help with their ambiguous statements.

    [–]UWUness 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    You must have been feeling isolated, and tired of having to deal with this homophobic society alone, without having someone to lean on. Please know that there are more of us out there: women who care about their fellow women and wouldn't want to have anything to do with men and their penises. Speaking of toys, I must admit that I hate "dildos" and "strap-ons" with a passion, more so since the rise of "transgenderism", and "trans-identified" women, aka "trans men", boasting about their "strap-ons".

    Instead of toys, the focus should be on the genitals of the same-sex. For women, fingers are enough to pinch the clitoral hood and tug up and down to please us. No toy is needed.

    It's annoying that they try to shove us into "only top" or "only bottom" roles during lesbian activities as well. Gay activities allow for an exchange of pleasure. One receives and the other gives, yes. But they can change positions and the receiver can give back to the previous giver the same way she did, with the same attentiveness and equipment, something that can not exist in "straight" activities.