I just want to say I’m so happy this place exists where we can talk about our issues and experiences and share fun things related to being a lesbian.
I have a few close friends but they are all either straight or bisexuals who only date men. We have a group chat where we talk about everything, and being in our early 20s, a good chunk of our messages are about love and what the hell it all means. I pitch in the conversation as best as I can when they complain about men, their boyfriends, (male) friends with benefits, their online dating experiences. But this past week I met someone and I was typing paragraphs to them because I was so excited, and they just gave me message-reactions and one line replies before moving back to their own issues. And I don’t really know why, but I just felt really hurt by how dismissive they were. And I love my friends so much and I know they probably don’t mean to ‘not care’, but I just found myself unable to continue talking about it anymore because it felt like I was interrupting their discussion about men, which they could all relate to. Except me. I know I need to find some gay friends! But that’s not possible right now in my situation, and so I am really grateful for this community.
I don’t realise how lonely I feel until I go on this sub. And here, I feel seen and heard, even when I’m just scrolling. So, thank you. I love you all. 💗
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