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[–]Elvira95 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (12 children)

Yeah, that's pretty true. There is a real destruction of homosexuality in USA, especially female one, with all the gender ideology. Here in Europe clearly isn't like that, which I think also make finding someone easier. How can you find someone if everyone is queer, genderless and trans? lol Yeah, I was thinking about possibility of moving to the USA, but no, Iwould rather die than living in that mess. y mental health is way too bad to handle a country with shitty healthcare, guns and nut people and with fat epidemic lol

[–]Ricky_Ticky 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (11 children)

What mentality feels closer to you European or American?

[–]Elvira95 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (10 children)

European.

[–]Ricky_Ticky 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

Then move to DE 😉 you won't regret it

[–]Elvira95 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

I prefer the Uk, for many reasons. But that's depend on @VioletRemi wanting to marry me or not :D Germany or Switzerland are the other alternatives.

[–]Ricky_Ticky 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

Oh I hope she does. I keep my fingers crossed for you!! As far as I am aware UK also went bananas when it comes to TQ madness. But I guess, if you are in a happy relations, who cares about this queer oppression olympics :)

[–]Elvira95 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Uk isn't near as bad when it comes to gender ideology. I've always dreamed of living there. My favorite country in the world, a long with Spain. Much better than Germany for me. But in Germany how can move as I like, with no need of permission. If I marry someone, she can come with me too, even if she's out the EU. For Uk, it isn't the case. You need visa, you can't take a spouse unless you have permanent residence. It's way more difficult. I'm kinda mad my favorite country in Europe decided to leave the EU lol

[–]piylot 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I'm interested — why is the UK your favourite country in Europe? Is there a place in the UK you've particularly dreamed of living? Have you been much?

[–]Elvira95 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

It's a mental thing, mainly. I've also loved the anglo culture and wanting to live in english speaking region. It's way more flexible, open minded and liberal comparing to Italy. (or even Germany, which is far more conservative than people think in many ways) Both in terms of progressive cultural changes, and in terms on how people view life (here economy is way more bad at 30 you're already considered old for the job market, people are far less open to change and rigic and pessimistic, which can be good or bad, depends, somehow this make us less vulnerable to gender ideology, for example). Uk, it's the best of the anglo world , not a mess dangerous, big, far and stressful like north america, great quality of life and laws, cozy, small, closer home so I can see my parents often and hot accent and more introverted people. And I love tea like you guys :D

[–]piylot 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Is there a part of the UK you'd like to live? I'm in the UK and sometimes feel very confined as a monolingual english speaker, unless I chose to move to a different continent I have to accept a climate that makes being outdoors unpleasant for a lot of the year and negatively impacts my mental health. Sometimes I wonder if I'd be better off trying to learn a second European language

[–]Ricky_Ticky 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Have you ever thought of Malta? It's within the EU shengen zone, so you can take the non-EU spouse with you and the climate is same as in Spain. I looked up the weather there out of curiosity and oh... 18 degrees.. it's a dream. I hate German weather with all my heart, especially now.

Anyways, if life ever brings you to DE together with VioletRemi, drop me a line. Maybe I can help with some country specific tips&tricks, in case you need them

[–]Elvira95 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Malta is close to Sicily (where I am from), but no never thought of it.How is german weather? Cold and dark? I don't care much about weather. Theyareothers thing s that worry me about Germany.

Anyways, if life ever brings you to DE together with VioletRemi, drop me a line

Thanks, you're very nice