One thing I never understood is why people do not communicate sexual compatibility prior to doing anything sexual. Whether its a one night stand, a friends with benefits, or a committed relationship, communication of the wants and needs prior to getting in bed with one is important.

I, myself, am not really into giving oral so as a result, I tend to search for women who are either pleasers or submissive because these types of women tend to not care about receiving oral. I don't have time to be writing post on Reddit or Saidit about red flags that even those all the way in Tibet could see.

You say yourself the sex is phenomenal. Apparently not if you made this post. So which is it? Is it phenomenal and you're okay with your woman not going down on you for the duration of the relationship or is it lackluster and you in fact do want her to go down on you?

I'm not going to write a book but from this post and your previous post, this is an unhealthy relationship. You are a woman, an adult female, if you are not able to take charge of this relationship nor act accordingly to what this relationship is demanding of you then I look forward to your next post.

Step up. Tell her what you want. If she says, 'no' then the two of you sit and form a compromise. If she does not desire to compromise or even you then one or the other, or both needs to end the relationship.