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[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I personally like to err on the side of taking women at their word unless they give me a flagrant reason not to do so, so if someone is telling me that they're "into everybody", I would be listening to that, not looking for reasons to classify her as something else.

[–]Skipdip[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sure if you want to do that. But given the culture that would mean that literally there are no lesbians except for me. No, that is too simple. In this day and age we have to be discerning. If you had taken me at my word I was “into everybody”.