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That's nice, but I don't want a housewife, either. To me it is unacceptable to sit home and mooch off of your partner. I have struggled with money throughout my life, and have had to work entirely to support myself, it would be disrespectful to me for somebody to expect to be able to not work and live in my household. To me that is extreme laziness. Why not just go back to living with parents or being on welfare?

I just cannot believe in this sub my desire to not date when I am unemployed was up for negative judgment at all. There's no debate to even be had there, that's my personal choice. Just like it's your choice to be used for your money by somebody who wants to sit home all day doing nothing.