I was on the TRA side in the past. But I can’t support what they are doing anymore, it’s become such a nightmare. When they started telling lesbians to rethink their sexuality it was way too much. Never mind changing laws without and forsight and transitioning kids. There is just a lot of really bad ideaology being pushed, at this point. There are many trans people I like as individuals, it’s the aggressive and thoughtless activism, and writing off of people who have any concerns, including trans people, that is too much. They don’t care about you unless you toe the line. Your friends might, if they are reasonable people, but not the majority. I think a lot of lesbians were spending lots of time defending them, especially ones who are 35+, because trans people used to be part of the community and not crazy like this issue has become