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[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 13 insightful - 4 fun13 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

How do they survive taking a shower?

[–]JulienMayfair 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"I was just hanging out with my girlfriends, and we were gossiping about boys, and one of them shared a text with me all about me."

I used to teach writing, so I have a very developed ear for voice. This one screams teenage girl.

It's like a trans woman I know who's otherwise very low-key and passes pretty well visually; in conversation, however, I forget that I'm talking to a "woman" because she engages in conversation like a man.

[–]Femaleisnthateful 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I can't even parse out what's happening here or what the alleged crime is, apart from a man who is obviously not gay recognizing a woman and describing her as feminine

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The guy associated vagina with femininity.

[–]RippoffOfLoveSStraight | Overuses quotation marks 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I am so, so, so, so SICK of trans people calling bi people gay

[–]NutterButterFlutterStill waving into the void 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I am so TIRED of always having to advocate for myself, for educating cis dumbasses and for not having the right to be mad. I am so frustrated that nobody understands.

Disregard this "cis" and "trans" aspect of what went on in this particular experience.

What happened to her in the past, and what she's experiencing in the present, is just guy things and patriarchy in action. She believes that gay men are not like straight men, they are soft and feminine and uWu (homophobia) so they won't do the same things.

But this actually has nothing to do with sexuality at all. Its culture and gender roles and all of that. Like what Radfems/GC talk about. Its the very clear difference in how men and women behave with each other.

I am scared that I will not be angry and assertive enough when I'll see him, because I feel like if I'm not sweet he will go away and I'll be alone forever.

At the end of it all, it has nothing to do with how he responds. He will act how he does because of how he learned and grew up in his particular society and community. The problem is her, and her perception, and her needs trying to be shoved onto someone else.

TL,DR: Started to fall in love with a cis guy, we had sex. He wrote a text about my body and how feminine he saw me.

THAT'S BECAUSE HE IS GAY AND YOU ARE A WOMAN.

[–]NutterButterFlutterStill waving into the void 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

[–]spanishprofanity 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oooh vaginas are the crucible of liiife blablablah! No it's just a body part that was naturally selected to make dicks feel good

Pleasure is a byproduct of sex. Our vaginas were not made to "make penises feel good." Sex organs are for reproduction, and pleasure is the incentive to mate. What you said reeks of misogyny.

umm but you are men so how is this misogyny

Like, what if I went up to him and called him a woman and he has a feminine body. It wouldn’t feel good would it?

lmao "WHAT IF I DID A 'NO U,' BIGOT?" try it, idiot. guarantee the guy from OP's post isn't going to cry about it on reddit like she did

[–]automoderatorHuman-Exclusionary Radical Overlord[M] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

RIP Snappy, I AM THE NEW GOD!

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