This is what I always think. Notice that the kweers/'spicy straights'/hijackers of gay identity only emerged very recently... after LGB people had done the all the hard work of making it comparatively safe to be gay in the western world. Where were they all those years, when being gay in, say, the U.S., could well mean being locked up in a mental hospital, and/or jail? Were they calling themselves gay-- 'transbians', 'gay transmen'-- then? HELL NO. Because it couldn't be treated as a game back then.

And that's all that being gay is to them... a game. With gay people as mere pieces on a gameboard... for them to play with :(