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[–]JulienMayfair 12 insightful - 7 fun12 insightful - 6 fun13 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Oh dear . . . does Sam Smith have a stylist? If so, just go all the way and get the Viking helmet with horns.

And as I've said many times before, no one corresponds 100% to masculine or feminine stereotypes; thus, everyone is non-binary, and it's a meaningless category.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The thing I've always told friends who try to buy into the whole non-binary thing is that these people are asking the right question but coming up with the exact wrong answer.

Yes you should question traditional gender stereotypes and not feel less than a man if you don't look like a lumberjack etc... They take the opposite route and say ok I'm not an idealized male form therefore I am not a male.

We used to call this sexism when society judged women by their appearance so instead of moving past that and judging people on their actions and qualifications, society has decided to bring men in too and just judge everyone. The only important thing is how you look.

[–]bopomofodojo 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is what drives me the most crazy about enby's. You cannot - cannot - be an "enby" without fully subsuming yourself to gender stereotypes. You just can't. Their entire worldview and foundation of identity is based on these stereotypes. Despite the LGB community and GNC people more broadly fighting for literally a century to be seen as more than just presentation, in the span of 5 years they've turned around and subsumed sex and sexual orientation to said presentation. It's laughably absurd but yet it is the progressive Truth du jour right now.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 7 insightful - 6 fun7 insightful - 5 fun8 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

he needs to stop stuffing himself in those dresses.

On topic, they should have created a new non binary category from people who can't bring themselves to accept an award from the hetrobinary patriarchy. Just hand it out at the end when everyone is asleep.

[–]Femaleisnthateful 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Almost all the 'trans' people at my work seem to be of the 'non-binary' persuasion. Several women, many of whom are lesbians. I kinda get it, you feel oppressed by sex stereotypes, and you want an exemption... others are straight women, clearly just it in for attention. Funny, they have no problem using them women's washrooms, though.

A few males who either seems to alternate their 'gender presentation' or throw in a feminine coat or shirt or something. I keep my eye on them for when they start going full AGP.

[–]automoderatorHuman-Exclusionary Radical Overlord[M] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

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