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[–]hufflepuff-poet 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I denied the fact that I liked men because I felt a need to be seen as queer, but didn't know enough about transness or my own gender dysphoria to realize that the reason I loathed the idea of being a man's girlfriend was not that I liked girls better, but that I hated the idea of being the "woman" in the relationship. Lesbianism seemed better because then maybe gender dynamics wouldn't matter as hard, but it wasn't until recently when total security in my gender was solidified that I realized I'm just not that into women. My attraction to men was always brushed off as "comphet" or gender envy but man I am simply a fag and it was never that complicated 🤷

[–]shveya 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I almost felt bad for her, until she felt entitled to calling herself a slur that she doesn’t understand.