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[–]NutterButterFlutterStill waving into the void 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Found an archive that includes the text which was removed: https://archive.vn/Etgnv

The post in question was this:
"r/askgaybros has got to be the most toxic subreddit I've ever seen for trans people's mental health. As a gay trans guy I struggle to feel safe in a lot of gay guy online spaces.
The only gay man oriented subreddit that I feel safe at is a subreddit that's specifically targeted towards gay trans guys (can't remember the specific title)
Obviously I know not all cis gay people are like this but holy shit some of them need to chill. Gay trans dudes are called straight women fetishizing gay men essentially.
Honestly as a trans FTM dude I'm so tired of cis gays throwing us under the bus to look better to society.
(Yes, I know not all cis gays are like this, just a worrying amount of them are)"
I got banned from commenting in the community because of the post. I think the ban might be temporary but idk.
Did I do something wrong? I'm rereading my comments under the post and the post itself but I don't see what I did wrong.
I just wanted to vent about the way SOME cis gays treat trans people...

[–]MBMayfair 13 insightful - 4 fun13 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

Feeling "safe" 🙄....honey, you're reading an online forum on a fucking screen. The way they carry on, you'd think they were backpacking through Syria. O the fragility!

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 9 insightful - 10 fun9 insightful - 9 fun10 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

this comment makes me feel unsafe

[–]RippoffOfLoveSStraight | Overuses quotation marks 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why must they always force themselves into groups that they perceive as hostile towards them? If you feel unwelcome, that's because you are and you should leave.