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[–]Femaleisnthateful 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

. IVe identified as ace since HS and I’m 30. I knew I liked guys, loved everything about them, but sex and relationships has always felt off. I’ve never had sex with girls but I love taking them to dinner and generally having a romantic relationship… but I hate boobs. I can’t get over it.

Imagine being in your 30s and being this fucked in the head. This timeline truly sucks.

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

This woman sounds... mentally unstable

[–]Chocolatepudding[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I really think trauma is behind so much of it. Natal women who won't take their clothes off even when in bed with another woman, women who are attracted to men but can't bear to get close to them, women who are revolted by and disconnected from their own bodies. Hell there was a woman who couldn't wash because she didn't want to touch her female genitals... couldn't wash for several months.

Sometimes these people are deserving of having fun poked at them but mostly it's not funny. Without the trans label it's blindingly obvious half of them are traumatized. And they unwittingly join the misogyny but I don't hold that against them. There isn't space for it in their language because of the damn trans bs