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[–]Femaleisnthateful 10 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

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I'm really hating the casual normalization of 'hookup culture' as a default. No concept of organic, loving relationships anywhere, just "Choke me with your dick, Daddy!". Apparently you have to call yourself 'demisexual' if you're not into casual, loveless sex.

I also couldn't help but notice that the expectation is that these women's role is to serve their sexual partners, even though they're not identifying as women.

[–]jim_steak 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I agree, and I think a lot of the common ideas/ways of talking about sex nowadays are really wrapped up in pornography. For example, this drive for everyone to microlabel every aspect of their sexuality; labels don't matter so much in real life but they matter a lot in pornography. It seems to drive a lot of the trans stuff too - a lot of trans men seem to be trying to escape the pornographic role of woman as abuse object and a lot of trans women seem to have an erotic fascination with assuming that role.