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[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Better lesson: “cis gay” men don’t need external validation of the fact that they are men. They are men because they are male no matter how they act or feel or what other people think of them. Basing your own identity on how others perceive you is a losing game for everyone, gay, trans, or otherwise.

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

XY chromosomes, having (at some point) a dick (male genitalia) and being potentially capable of producing sperm means you're a real man already.

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You are forever bound to be gender nonconforming in the eyes of society.

Not if society stops believing in this "gender" bullshit altogether.

Fight this system, don't contribute to it.

Physician, heal thyself. Your gender-woo is contributing to the system that stigmatizes gay men (and bisexuals, and lesbians, and women as a whole). And when we try to fight this system? You call us bigots.

But it's not that we're bigots. It's that YOU are hypocrites. You love the very system that you purport to oppose. And you hate us for not sharing your dishonesty... and your confusion.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 9 insightful - 7 fun9 insightful - 6 fun10 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Now now, we can't be giving transmen dysphooooooooooooria by denying their masculinity.

[–]spanishprofanity 8 insightful - 8 fun8 insightful - 7 fun9 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

invalidating herself to own the gays

[–]JulienMayfair 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes, I'm gender non-conforming. That's the point. I don't have to put myself in some gender box.

[–]automoderatorHuman-Exclusionary Radical Overlord[M] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

RIP Snappy, I AM THE NEW GOD!

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