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[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Totally agree but then it had the ironic effect of proving the point that only women or men who have sex with women can offer meaningful advice, which is why it’s stupid to pretend that you’ve come to gay men for advice on vagina in good faith. It also put OP in an awkward position where their hands were basically tied and they couldn’t call out the other interloper for not staying in her lane.